Friday, November 14, 2008

what your name?

"What you name?" I cannot even count how many times I have been asked that question and how many times I have asked that question of the people I meet here. At home, I've met many people with a variety of names... from Tom, Sam, Rachel, Kim, David, Kelly, and so on and so forth. Occasionally, I meet someone with an slightly more unique name such as Shalom, Lanae, Ali, Jonas, or Logan, but even those names are not that unusual. In Africa it is a different story altogether. Most little girls dream of meeting a handsome prince, falling in love, and riding off into the sunset to a land of "happily ever after." I have dreamed of finding my prince, but never did I imagine, that I would actually meet someone named Prince. One of the first weeks I was here, I took care of a patient named Prince, he was charming, and did ask me to marry him, but I graciously declined. I was shocked that my patient was actually named Prince, but now that I have been in Africa for 7.5 months I now know that Prince is actually one of the more "normal" names. I have met Darling Boy his name was a great fit, he actually was very darling. Another baby was named Praise. We called him Mega Praise because he is one big baby. I have also met Gift, Baby Girl, Blessing, Peewee, Playboy, God's Gift, Baby, Princess, Precious, Dearest, Hope and Joy( a set of twins), Anointed, Lucky Boy, and Daughter. Some more of the common names in Africa include Hawa, Finda, Kaymah, Varlee, Bendu, Jitta, and Esi. I have asked a number of the parents where they come up with the names for their children and most of them say from life circumstances. This past week I took care of a delightful, little 3 month-old baby that had a cleft lip surgery, his name.... Oldpa.... There was nothing old or pa about him, I have no idea where that name came from, but I won't ever forget him or his name. Directly across from Oldpa was my 5 year old patient named... Mama.... I love this place! This culture is so unique and beautiful.

3 comments:

Linda Ziulkowski said...

Lada,

You are so right on! Gotta love it! Nice story. Give all the Mercy's and Praise's, and Tyrus's and Bendu's one last hug for me!

Plus the Steven's, Sam's, Dorothy's, Mathilda's, you get the point.

Momma Z

mschenk said...

Names are a LOT of fun - my friend who works with inner-city kids in Grand Rapids met a girl named "Everything". Some of my favorite names from here: Tanojarae - Daquii - Miracle - Rashanocque . . .
LOVE YOU!
megan

Gallup Family said...

We just named our new daughter Adrianna Wren. People ask us where we got the Wren from. My husband heard it this summer and loved it, so we researched it and found that Wren's have the longest and most elaborate song of any bird. That sounded like a trait we wanted our daughter to have so we named her that :) I can see people naming their children from life experiences...it's kind of fun.